So, yesterday I was standing in the elevator waiting to go up to the 12th floor. A young man got in as well. I noticed he was looking at me, but just tried to ignore it and looked down. Then he commented... "looks like you got some sun". Then I just looked up shortly and said: "Yeah" (even though it wasn't really the problem.... I mean sure I was in the sun... for like 5 minutes, but I know that's not what he was referring to, but thought it would be a good conversation ender.) Then he commented "sunblock". Then I just looked at him again and said "It's a genetic skin disorder".. hoping he would just let it be now. His response: "I'm sorry". I thought that was nice enough. Then a few seconds later he said: "Well, your still beautiful". ...."I wish you would say the same thing about me" and then winked and left the elevator. I have to say that was probably the best way someone has saved themselves. I of course was a little flattered, but more impressed by his reaction. Most people let their curiosity take over and are eager to fulfill it. The next question after i say I have a genetic skin disorder is: "What's it called?" Then I say: "Netherton Syndrom" Then they say "What?" or "Say it again?" or "never heard of it before".... then of course they want you to keep going and tell them what it means.......
But this guy... he cared more about my feelings than his own curiosity. Or he really did think I was cute and didn't care about the rest... which is of course cool too. :)
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